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Diva Update; All the news that is fit to print and some that isn't
Topic Started: Apr 9 2013, 07:31 AM (349 Views)
Little Diva
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Hello everyone --

So, as those of you who are on my facebook page know, I am starting a new job next week. Finally. After almost a year of unemployment, I will be back to work. Now, it is a maternity leave replacement for 16 months, which is perfect for me as it gives me some breathing room to find full time work. I will also be working part time for a small trade show company here in town doing some on-line marketing stuff, and some other stuff for them to help make up the short fall in my finances.

My finances are a mess. I am seeing a credit counsellor tomorrow to go over my options -- protection or bankruptcy. I have beat back the wolves for as long as I can and now no one wants to negotiate with me and they are all demanding full payment. The house deal finally closed, and I had to borrow money from my parents to actually get the deal closed. What a tough road that has been, let me tell you. I have amazing friends and family who helped me move. If it had not been for them, I do not know what I would have done as there was just no money to pay for movers. Oh ... and irony? I got moved into my new house and two days later, got my new job.

I am not dating right now and I have decided not to for awhile -- like at least a year. I want to get ME in order -- all of me -- before I think about "dog walking" ;) and dating and men. Dating at this age (52) can be both fun and icky. So much baggage .... mine and whatever dude I have dated. The funny thing is I have begun questioning my motives for dating and what I want and need, so until I get that straight, all men are off limits. Except for Ken Watanabe should he show up on my door step :teehee:

On the HAPPY front --- I am singing in a musical. I am having so much fun and have met so many nice people doing this. This is the first time I have done something that is just FOR ME. I have sailed but that was the former mr. diva's thing not mine. Although I love horses, riding was always my daughter's thing. I hve always wanted to act and this was a great chance to try that.

And I am happy. Although the financial stuff will be hard, I have a lovely home that I am renting, a terrific room mate, our assorted canines, and this wickedly awesome group of friends and family who are my pillars of strength and support. And I count all of you in that group!
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gunnar
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Hi TT! Glad to hear your update! Keep on keeping on my friend! Love you girl!
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Doors closing, doors opening.

How adventurous to see where you go TT!!
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LD!!! I am rarely on facebook (I should be better about this...but I REALLY dislike social media stuff). I have been thinking about you much recently and wondering what was "new". Thanks so much for the update. :hug:

:martini: :martini: :martini: Here's to your new job...and some (hopefully) good news on the financial advisor stuff. Love you long time!!! :hug:
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:clap: Sounds like things are falling into place for you. :clap:
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Best wishes with the job, and good for you for taking some time for yourself to do fun things like singing - way to go! :cheer:
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LD, glad things are looking up, you've sure had a tough time of it! I'm sure the financial stuff will work out, if not, it's not the end of the world to file B/R. Hugs and jingles to you! :hug: :jingles:
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I'm glad to read you are happy LD, after all you have been through it is wonderful that you are doing some things for YOU and finding happiness.
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LD, I was so thrilled to read on FB that you had landed a new job! I always admire your positive attitude and the way you keep pressing forward. There are great things ahead for you, I am certain of that. Wishing you the best of luck and keep us posted, ok?
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I'm so glad to hear things are looking up for you!!! Good luck with the new job!
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First comment: 16 months maternity leave? Hello Non-US system.

Ok, back to talking about Little Diva! I'm glad things are starting to look up and they're you're making your way through all the sh!t. You are a tough cookie. Keep on keepin' on

:luck: :hug:
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