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| Anyone on tonight...?; Update 5/6-- Emotional Roller Coaster | |
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| snaffle | May 2 2010, 08:17 PM Post #16 |
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Is the meadow on fire?
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Make a giant pic of that super-cute pic of you and Connor and put it on your fridge. It's ok to cry. We cry to grieve not over what we lost, but what we wished we had. Big hugs, W4M.
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| Black Tack | May 2 2010, 08:25 PM Post #17 |
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You're BANNED!
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Won, sorry to hear about the break up but it sounds like it was the best route for you to take. What fantastic pictures, both of them. Connor is handsome and you are gorgeous and look so happy Hang in there hun
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| Boston | May 3 2010, 03:43 AM Post #18 |
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It'll be an adventure! We're going on an adventure!
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Sorry, WFM. I'm glad you have a positive outlook and can see yourself moving on. Let those tears out, girl!! I always feel a little better after a good cry. I had to at the house plants, too! Go give Connor a big bear hug and take him for a trail ride. Then eat a pint of Ben & Jerry's.... just kidding, kind of... We're all here for you, you're not alone. Lots of 's to you, lady and good for you for seeing it for what it is now and getting out NOW.
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| onthebit | May 3 2010, 04:45 AM Post #19 |
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Off visiting Candy Cave, be right back.
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| Little Diva | May 3 2010, 05:21 AM Post #20 |
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I have to admit that I spit coffee all over my monitor when I read about the bleach in the house plants. Too funny! |
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| Won for Me | May 3 2010, 05:23 AM Post #21 |
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Is the meadow on fire?
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I have a huge headache this morning from crying. I can't take the day off, but that is what I want to do. Thank you again for all who sent me some support last night. It helped more than you will ever know. Please jingle that I stay strong today. I need to do the completely clean break thing and that isn't always easy for me. |
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| Corey94 | May 3 2010, 05:25 AM Post #22 |
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Off visiting Candy Cave, be right back.
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Damn, I wasn't on last night, is a today too late? Sorry your in the throes of a breakup, but you have found the right direction and every day will bet a bit better. Time is the answer. I'm glad that your new place will be void of memories w/ the old BF. Now to make new memories.... |
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| Won for Me | May 3 2010, 05:29 AM Post #23 |
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Is the meadow on fire?
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The houseplants still look normal today. They need to look good until he takes them to his dad's (where he has to live for the moment at 42 years old! ). Then, they need to drop like flies. I was worried they would all be completely dead this morning, but they look pretty good. The smell was gone too!
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| headlesshorseman | May 3 2010, 05:34 AM Post #24 |
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I wish you were closer to me.....we had a HUGE COOK OUT LAST NIGHT....beer, chicken, rice, beer, steak, broccoli, beer, sausage and beer for dessert... You would have woken up with a huge headache TOO..but your belly would be FULL!!! I hope you can have a good day.... VIVA LA DEAD PLANTS HH
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| Indy | May 3 2010, 05:54 AM Post #25 |
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| RHowell | May 3 2010, 07:15 AM Post #26 |
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Sorry just seeing this now. With a horse that HOT!!!! who needs a dumb boyfriend anyway?
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| Witchy | May 3 2010, 07:19 AM Post #27 |
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I'm sorry you are hurting, but you are doing the right thing. Life is too short to spend a minute on someone who doesn't treat you like gold. Relationships are work even when both parties are sweet and kind to each other. You deserve to be treated well and to be happy.
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| Mamy | May 3 2010, 07:37 AM Post #28 |
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Missing my Jakie Dog.
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I am sorry I was not on last night!! But I am still offering lots of hugs today!! I hope your head feels better, and that you can go get some hugs from Connor today!! |
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| Barn Girl | May 3 2010, 07:40 AM Post #29 |
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WFM and for the days and weeks ahead. I'm happy for you that you're moving into your new house-- gives you a fresh start and it'll occupy your time for a while. Perfect timing to get rid of the ex. Give Connor lots of hugs and cry on that giant black shoulder if you need to!
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| Won for Me | May 3 2010, 07:51 AM Post #30 |
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Thanks for the continued support. I did make it to work and I am getting a few things done. I wish I had a fast forward button...just a few weeks...I know that time heals all. If I could just fast forward... I have also learned a tremendous amount about myself and how to make relationships work (or when to stop trying) from this experience with him. The Maya Angelou quote is stuck in my mind. He showed me a long time ago who he was and I ignored it. I am trying to think about the good that came from it and that is I am more sure of what I want and need in a relationship...Good looks get old really quickly when there is nothing pretty on the inside. It is like the big, beautiful present...when you open it and there is nothing on the inside, the package is not so pretty anymore. Thanks again for the continues support. I really need it. |
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at the house plants, too! Go give Connor a big bear hug and take him for a trail ride. Then eat a pint of Ben & Jerry's.... just kidding, kind of...
). Then, they need to drop like flies. I was worried they would all be completely dead this morning, but they look pretty good. The smell was gone too!

for the days and weeks ahead. I'm happy for you that you're moving into your new house-- gives you a fresh start and it'll occupy your time for a while. Perfect timing to get rid of the ex. Give Connor lots of hugs and cry on that giant black shoulder if you need to!
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