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Anyone on tonight...?; Update 5/6-- Emotional Roller Coaster
Topic Started: May 2 2010, 06:49 PM (1,347 Views)
Won for Me
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Kicked the BF out the end of last week...long, long over due. I spent the weekend packing for the upcoming move. I nicely packed and labeled all his stuff. Of course, he asks me to leave while he comes tonight and gets his stuff. He sends me nasty text while I am letting him move his stuff out. We had a horrible issue to deal with in April and I was pretty sure we wouldn't survive it and we didn't.

I always take the high road and truly believe living well is the best revenge. I certainly don't need or want him on the mortgage so I am all set with my new house. But, I don't feel like being nice tonight...I just poured bleach in all his house plants. I hope the smell goes away before he comes to get them.

No matter how much you are ready for it, breaking up hurts like hell.
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Awwww, hugs to you WfM! Breaking up is never easy no matter the circumstances. Better times await you in the future, I'm sure of it!!! And you can always come here and we'll listen and have a drinky-poo with you! :hug: :martini: :hug:
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LOL at the houseplants. And I'm sorry about the BF, but you'll feel much better once all his crap's out of there, then pour yourself a glass of wine or champagne and toast your beautiful new house and new beginnings. Better yet, pair that with something wonderful and chocolate.

I'm surprised he made you LEAVE while he got his stuff. WTF? Ignore the nasty.
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I'm so sorry for the situation you find yourself. It always sucks BIG TIME. You are right though - living well is the best revenge.
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Won for Me
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If I could just stop the tears! Damn, he is not worth one of these tears. NOT ONE!
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many :hug: :hug: :hug: to you. Tomorrow will be a better day and the next even better!
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Big hugs to you WFM. :hug: :hug: :hug: It will get better over time, you have a beautiful new house and a beautiful sweet horse. We're here for you :rose:
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Are the tears over the situation or him?

I cried when my ex left, even though I broke up with him, and I ultimately got what I wanted. I was just upset about the upheaval.
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A happy picture...horses are always there when the guys leave.

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DRAGON BREATH. DRAGGIN' BUTT
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Deeep Breath. Sigh. It WILL get better.
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HH :hug:
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Won for Me
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Tears over the situation. He was the World's Worst Boyfriend and it went on way too long. I am mad at myself for letting it go on...

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May 2 2010, 07:20 PM
If I could just stop the tears! Damn, he is not worth one of these tears. NOT ONE!
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You're crying for YOU. For your unfulfilled expectations or hopes oro dreams, your own happiness, not for HIM. Don't let him take away your "ownership" of your feelings. It's ok to cry -- you can be unhappy and not give him credit, even if he's been the source of it in the past. (Laughing still about the plants).

Have a glass of wine (or chocolate, or Lifetime TV, or TOC) and let it out.

When you wake up tomorrow I suspect you'll feel a lot better.

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Won for Me
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Thanks everyone...It does help to read positive comments. I always have hated Sunday nights...tonight is worse than usual.

This is the pic I meant to post of Connor...he looks cute in all of them, but I have photo challenges.

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Tears over the situation. He was the World's Worst Boyfriend and it went on way too long. I am mad at myself for letting it go on...


No blame. It's over NOW, you could still be in it! :shoot:

It sounds like a lot of change. Change is hard.
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