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Less then 6 weeks
Topic Started: Mar 29 2010, 12:30 PM (280 Views)
Eleanor
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And I will be Mrs. Fraser. I am starting to get a little excite. Up to now it has just been "OK so I am getting married." no biggie but now I am starting to get excited. <3

On a down note DF went home to see his mom and daughter and his mom told him that she won't be able to make the flight out for our wedding. She is having some health issues and doesn't feel the long flight is a good idea. I understand but am still very up set as I have not meet her yet and wanted to met her before we got married. I kind of wished she had said something before because then I would have gone with him on this trip but we where trying to save money. :duh:
And I miss my man. :,(

Ok that I am done now. :innocent:
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Barn Girl
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It'll be an adventure! We're going on an adventure!
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Let the countdown begin! It will be here before you know it! :clap:
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Congrats!!!!!! The countdown begins!!!! :clap: :clap: :clap:

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Woo hoo! I am at 89 days, or 3 months from last Saturday, so I feel you on the excitement =)
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That's exciting!!!!
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MissBri
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But, I don't care - it's 5:00 somewhere
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Congrats Eleanor!!!

Is there any possibility you can go and visit your future MIL before the wedding - even if just for a weekend? I know it's an extra expense, but it's something that will mean a lot to you, your DF, and your MIL for many years to come. Can you cut back on something else so you can afford it? Especially where she cannot make the wedding - which must be breaking her heart. I think it would be a very gracious gesture and one that will start your relationship out on the right foot.
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Eleanor
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MissBri,

I would love to but she is on the east cost and my XH is in egypt for the next 3 weeks which means that I am living at his house with our son when he is in school and the cost of the airfair is just to much. We couldn't really afford for DF to go home to see his mom but I made go and used the extra room that we had ont he CC for his plane fair. Right now we are sitting in the red and it will be that way for the next month. To top it off I can't get the time off work and then ask for the days the time for our wedding. We are not going away anywhere for a honeymoon as it is just in the way of things. I also have to take time off togo on our house hunting trip. I just wish she had said something earlier because I had made it work. There just is no way to do so now because DF can't get the time off to make another trip there. Being militery he has to put in for leave passes.

I wish all it was was money because then I would find it, but it just is not that easy. We have already talked and we are going out there this fall.
Edited by Eleanor, Mar 30 2010, 06:27 AM.
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Eleanor,

First, CONGRATULATIONS again...6 weeks will fly by before you know it!

Also, if both you and FMIL have computers, have you tried Skype? www.skype.com It's a FREE service that you can use to make video calls. Webcams are cheap and easy to get, and you guys can see talk to each other without spending the money on airfare! It's fantastic, I've used it a lot since my move to CO to talk to my parents and friends back in VA - it's almost like we're in the same place. The only thing missing is the hugs. :yes:

If you can get that set up, you'll be able to "meet" her before the wedding, and you can even talk on your wedding day so she can see you both all dressed in your finery!
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