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| Tweet Topic Started: Mar 19 2009, 10:47 AM (614 Views) | |
| Little Diva | Mar 20 2009, 04:06 AM Post #16 |
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You're BANNED!
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Thanks guys. You are the best! My daughter is here for the weekend and I have taken a day off of work, which I really should NOT do as I am seriously behind on a ton of stuff. We are heading to a spa today for a half day of pampering. And the only ads I seem to get at the top and bottom of the page are equestrian singles ads....sheesh! |
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| MissBri | Mar 20 2009, 05:53 AM Post #17 |
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But, I don't care - it's 5:00 somewhere
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Aw LD many HUGS!!!! Jingles that you find an even better barn with many mature and fun individuals - where are you looking? I'm sure someone here may have a suggestion or two. Are you looking for a large show type barn, or a smaller one? I have so been where you are now standing. Definitely spend time with your horse, look up some old friends and catch up over a glass of wine. Good for you for taking a day to spend with your daughter.I've always been a very up and optimistic type, but there's been periods in my life where it was tough work to be so. And yes it was just a facade, but after a while that optimism kinda absorbs into you and all of a sudden you realize that laughter and smile are actually coming from the inside out. So chin up Honey, think of this as starting a whole new chapter in your life. You have a clean palate more or less - choose some bright and soft colors and create a masterpiece! |
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| SnackPack | Mar 20 2009, 09:02 AM Post #18 |
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Gack, LD. Sorry to hear about this. Take care of yourself and bigs to you.
Edited by SnackPack, Mar 20 2009, 09:03 AM.
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| Trialbyfire | Mar 20 2009, 09:18 AM Post #19 |
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(((Hugs))) It sounds like you are doing the right thing and taking care of yourself. Good idea about the spa! Sending hugs your way!
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| thetoothpick&oliveshow | Mar 21 2009, 05:20 AM Post #20 |
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Off visiting Candy Cave, be right back.
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I'm so sorry to hear this, Diva. However, I'm sure your perfect guy is out there waiting somewhere.
Edited by thetoothpick&oliveshow, Mar 21 2009, 05:20 AM.
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| stephjm | Mar 21 2009, 07:52 AM Post #21 |
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It'll be an adventure! We're going on an adventure!
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So sorry to hear this news Diva. Feel free to vent on us anytime!
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| Ride'emCO | Mar 21 2009, 09:15 AM Post #22 |
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Off visiting Candy Cave, be right back.
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Hugs to you, Diva! I know this is a hard time for you, but one of the bravest (and healthiest) things I think a person can do is walk away from a relationship that isn't right. Fighting constantly with (or for) someone corrodes the soul, until you are just fighting by rote and it's meaningless. It takes a strong, centered person to be able to go it alone instead of leaning on the "comfort" of a partnership that isn't providing you with what you need. Time to build yourself back up, and be happy. I wish you all the luck!
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| Fish Cheeks | Mar 21 2009, 09:42 AM Post #23 |
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LD, I'm sorry to hear of your breakup, but from all you've written in the past, it sounds like it is the right thing. Good for you for standing up and being a strong woman. You deserve wonderful things and once you free yourself and take some time for yourself the door will be open to all new possibilities. I hope you had a wonderful spa day - nothing like some pampering to nourish the soul!!!!
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| jetjocky | Mar 21 2009, 11:12 AM Post #24 |
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Shunnnnn the unbeliever. Shunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.
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Just wanted to add my as well and let you know that we are thinking about you.
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| Buryinghill1 | Mar 21 2009, 03:08 PM Post #25 |
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You're BANNED!
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check your TOC mail
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| Sannois | Mar 21 2009, 03:54 PM Post #26 |
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Awww LD I have missed you!! I am sorry you are going through this, But bravo for you for making a change like this! MAny many hugs to you!!!
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| Sing Mia Song | Mar 22 2009, 08:05 AM Post #27 |
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I'm from the Government and I'm here to help.
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Diva, I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm not around much (can't log on at work because the avatars take too long to download), but when I'm here you are always one of the posters I specifically look for! I had a bad break up in my 20s and I felt exactly the way you described--no humor, no enjoyment, just exhaustion. I'm happy to say that once my decision was made and I kicked his ass to the curb, my mood brightened significantly (and almost immediately). He was a live-in boyfriend, not a husband, so it was definitely easier to disentangle myself, but here's hoping that you, too, will suddenly find yourself smiling and humming as you groom your horse one fine spring day!
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Good for you for taking a day to spend with your daughter.



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