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Topic Started: Mar 19 2009, 10:47 AM (613 Views)
Little Diva
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Hello everyone....

Have not been by in awhile, other than odd comments here or there. Very busy at work, and well, the big news is that the diva family is splitting up. Mr. Diva and I have been having problems for awhile and things have gone steadily downhill. I am putting my house up for sale sometime during the summer, and I have started looking for another property somewhere closer to the barn where Tigger lives. The big problem is that the diva step daughter works where Tigger lives and while I love the barn, her comments about me to the staff and boarders are making it difficult to stay there for my own sanity. I am also looking for a new home for him. I am trying though to ensure that I am out at the barn when she is not there, but that is not always possible.

There are many many reasons why a relationship ends and this one is no different. This ending process is incredibly painful and difficult. I am just so thankful that we never really had our finances tied up together. This will make things somewhat easier.

So that is why I have not been around much. My sense of humour has left me, I am tired -- physically, mentally and spiritually, and feel like I have nothing to offer anyone. I thought that this time would be different; that I had learned from past mistakes, but I guess that I really have not. I thought I had truly found that one person who I could be with for ever, but the issues like his failing to get a divorce, and his children just would not go away. The one thing I have learned though is that if I am foolish enough to get into another relationship, he will NOT have an ex anything or children. And he will ride.
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Hugs to you LD, and best of luck to you during this time. It sounds like you're handling the situation as maturely and well as anyone possibly could.
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:hug: :hug: :hug: Hugs to you LD, be strong...remember when one door closes, another opens...
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Little Diva,

So sorry to hear about your heartaches :( :jingles: :jingles: :jingles: :hug: :hug: :jingles: :jingles: :jingles: Let's hope spring will bring some sunshine into your life, and new opportunities for love and happiness.
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Oh no LD! Boy relationships are tough in this day and age!My nephew is breaking up with his long term girl! :sigh: Hugs to you and I hope you feel better soon. :hug:
Edited by gunnar, Mar 19 2009, 11:39 AM.
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Sorry to hear your relationship is ending LD. You will end up stronger for it.
Just found out a few days ago that my brother and his wife are splitting. They are selling the house and the horses. I know things must of been bad for her to want out so badly that she would sacrifice her beloved horses. They are the most important thing in the world to her. I know my brother is not easy to be married to, and I feel for her.
Take care of yourself LD. Spending time with your horse and friends should help. I hope you can find a new barn soon, that sounds like it is really needed.
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Ugh, Diva! So sorry.... :hug: :hug: You've got a plan, which is huge. Good luck.
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My sense of humour has left me, I am tired -- physically, mentally and spiritually, and feel like I have nothing to offer anyone.

LD, your statement really hit home. Anyone who's been through this can identify. How brave of you to share it here; that isn't easy. It sounds like you're taking steps to take care of yourself and make things good for you; with all that you've endured with this relationship and step-kids, etc., you deserve to have some peace AND peace of mind. It WILL get better because YOU will make it better. Take your time and treat yourself well.

Sending many :hug: :hug: :hug: your way!!!
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Be sure to do some self pampering.

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Firstly, let me just say that I have MISSED you, LD!! :yes: :yes: :yes:

I know you had mentioned that things in life were topsy-turvey and I've been thinking about you a lot. I'm sorry to hear that things have gone south with your marriage, but hang in there hon. Do what you need to do to keep yourself sane. iI that includes a dartboard with images of the soon-to-be ex or his devil spawn, then I say GO FOR IT!!! :rose:

Much love and good thoughts coming your way!!!!!
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I'm so sorry. :hug: :hug: :hug:

Men suck. I say stay single and that way you don't ever have to ask anyone's permission to do anything again. Just find yourself a friend with benefits. :teehee: ;)
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Aw, Diva, I'm so sorry to hear this! Big :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: to you, my friend and a few :martini: :martini: :martini: :martini: to go along with them. I agree with the self pampering and spend lots of time with your sweet horse. They understand everything :cloud9:
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I'm sorry too. ..seems that life can really SUCK sometimes...JUST remember that we CARE FOR YOU :hug: :hug: :hug:

When the road we call life gets a little bumpy...LET US BE YOUR SHOCKS!!?!?!?

HH :hug:
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