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| Melliebay | Apr 8 2008, 07:03 AM Post #16 |
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It'll be an adventure! We're going on an adventure!
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I agree with all the wise things everyone has said. Stress is the biggest libido killer for women. Personally I am a fan of the Letters to Penthouse books. They have different chapters with a bunch of short stories, and there is something for everyone in there! I know if I have had a really busy day, it takes me much longer to get in the mood, so I usually just try to relax by taking a shower or bath, or even just watching some mindless TV with a glass of wine. You will find what works for you, but first, find a new doctor!
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| DairyQueen2049 | Apr 8 2008, 07:11 AM Post #17 |
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DRAGON BREATH. DRAGGIN' BUTT
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You know, there are many reasons I loff you TOCers and here is another one: maturity, honesty and desire to help other TOCers in need. You all rock!!! To the OP - there is some very awesome advice here. I wish you much luck and happiness
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| Black Tack | Apr 8 2008, 07:39 AM Post #18 |
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You're BANNED!
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Exactly what DQ said And good luck Obvious. I really hope some of these wise words help out. |
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| Sannois | Apr 8 2008, 09:25 AM Post #19 |
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You're BANNED!
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I am not sure I know how to answer that, its seems too personal for me. BUT what I will say is every woman is different. And its not like men, they can even if its lawn furniture. (Dont ask) bizarre news story I heard! <_< Some woman can never achieve with a man, unless the man is willing to experiment with the woman and try to help her. IT takes a very special relationship and even though there may be love many woman find it hard to divulge that to their mates. Best of luck, You can PT me if you like.
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| DairyQueen2049 | Apr 8 2008, 09:28 AM Post #20 |
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DRAGON BREATH. DRAGGIN' BUTT
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"Come-a here you sexy lawn chair I'ma give you BIG LOVE" Sorry. I digress. OP for you!!
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| sheepwithagun | Apr 8 2008, 09:40 AM Post #21 |
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We're on a bridge, Chaaaaaaaaarlie!
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Not all OB/GYNs are really trained to help with sexual dysfunctions. If yours isn't or their advice isn't helping I'd recommend looking up a professional sex therapist. Check out the AASECT website for a list of accredited therapists in your area. And do know that you're not alone..25-33% of women have had anorgasmia [the fancy medical term for it] at least some point in their life. And there's an 85% success rate in therapy! |
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| Obviousalter | Apr 8 2008, 11:57 AM Post #22 |
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Thanks ladies, for all the support, it has truly been overwhelming, and has given me the courage to find a new OB/GYN. Unfortunately, getting in the mood or relaxing or labido isn't the problem... its just the "grand finale" that doesn't happen. We have tried everything. The "V" word, fancy ones, every position and technique you can think of. I don't have any mental blocks, I don't even stress about that I can't "finish" anymore. Don't get me wrong, the sex is good, feels good, and hubby is more than willing to try lots of things, and for a long time actually (which I hear is a blessing in itself). And he doesn't push for it. He is actually really understanding. There is just no finale for me.. but you guys have given me the courage to go talk to someone else about it, and I appreciate that. Hopefully I can be a success story!!! Oh, and I heard about the guy with the picnic table, which is what finally drove me to think "this is REALLY unfair"..... |
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| Sing Mia Song | Apr 8 2008, 12:02 PM Post #23 |
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I'm from the Government and I'm here to help.
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Ask for a referral to an endocrinologist. Your hormones could be whacked. After my ovario-hysterectomy, my doctor put me on estrogen with a smidge of testosterone. Let me tell you, testosterone made a BIG difference. |
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| Sannois | Apr 8 2008, 05:44 PM Post #24 |
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Actually I hear it on Wood radio on a morning talk show. Apparently a guy I think in Indiana was arrested for having sex with his picnic table. No not on, with!! Seems a 41 yr old married man was Video taped by neighbors on more than one occasion going out on his deck naked, and in broad daylight and turning his picknic table on its side and using the Umbrella hole for um.. well you can figure it out! And he was married with 3 children. Some serious trouble there.
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| Sannois | Apr 8 2008, 05:47 PM Post #25 |
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I would not call what you experience sexual dysfunction. Not at all. You are in the mood, you havent figured out what the right spot is. without saying more. Wheres the blushing icon??
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| jn4jenny | Apr 8 2008, 06:34 PM Post #26 |
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Is the meadow on fire?
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Definitely talk to your doctor. Also, don't give up on "appliances" or "self-service techniques" just because one or two of them didn't work. You'd be amazed what kind of stuff might work, and not all of it needs to come from the toy store. Try googling "female masturbation" and explore the wide array of techniques possible with stuff that's probably already lying around your house. Not all of it will work for everybody, but the array of possibilities is pretty stunning, and much more creative than "sit on the washing machine". Once you find some of these self-service techniques that work, you'll be better equipped to figure out what will work with hubby added back in the picture. |
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| Sannois | Apr 8 2008, 07:25 PM Post #27 |
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Sometimes you dont need toys at all! Thats all I'm saying!
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| DairyQueen2049 | Apr 9 2008, 05:57 AM Post #28 |
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DRAGON BREATH. DRAGGIN' BUTT
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Thats just so When I worked on an ambulance crew we were called to a house because the teen boy got his part stuck in a toilet paper roll and couldn't well, I'm not saying it. Anyway, the male on our crew suggested he unroll the whole thing rather then go in to ER where they would have to cut it off (the tp roll). I'm telling you, real life is more bizarre then tv. |
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| DairyQueen2049 | Apr 9 2008, 12:18 PM Post #29 |
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DRAGON BREATH. DRAGGIN' BUTT
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Yeah - it really messed up your quote in my quote in the empty quote above too Sanny.
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| mareseatoats | Apr 9 2008, 05:26 PM Post #30 |
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Thomas H. Cruise!
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Definitely get help from other doctors. I've ridden horses for over 40 years and it's never impaired my ability. On the other hand, I've always found that as my hormone levels cycle it really makes a huge difference in all aspects...quality, speed, quantity, whatever...
A picnic table?!? A toilet paper roll?!?!
boyz are soooo silly! :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Exactly what DQ said 

Seems a 41 yr old married man was Video taped by neighbors on more than one occasion going out on his deck naked, and in broad daylight and turning his picknic table on its side and using the Umbrella hole for um.. well you can figure it out!

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