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| Should I just be happy?; Really need some TOC advice! | |
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| stephjm | Mar 6 2008, 06:56 AM Post #46 |
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It'll be an adventure! We're going on an adventure!
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Kim, I don't think anyone WANTS you to get divorced per se, what we WANT is for you to be happy. And only you can decide what is going to make you happy and do it, whether it's staying or leaving. I personally can tell how working with him at home has affected you this last year or so, I would encourage you to apply for your old job (or any job for that matter - check out groceries at Meijer if you want to) and get out of the house on a regular basis, feel like you are doing something good for yourself.
But that is my opinion, you can take it or leave it.I don't think it's going to work to just try and "out-stubborn" each other to see who leaves first. The other thing I would tell you to do (if you want to listen to me), is like many of the others. Explore your options so you know what to expect when you decide whether to leave or stay. Talk to an attorney. Talk to a counselor or someone similar if you think that will help. Take a long hard look and then decide what is best for you, indeed best for both of you. Yes of course any of your personal foibles are going to follow you. You can't just leave them behind. None of us can. But the question is, what is the best and healthiest situation for you to deal with yourself and whatever your demons are, and then gather your courage and do it. I know I shouldn't talk from experience, I am lucky enough to have a great husband, and believe me, I know that. But I can see the situation you're dealing with, and definitely would enourage you to at least take baby steps and make the situation better, one little thing at a time if you have to. Oh, and to you, as always!! We are behind you 100%!!!
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| MissBri | Mar 7 2008, 09:50 AM Post #47 |
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But, I don't care - it's 5:00 somewhere
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How are you doing??????????? |
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| MissBri | Mar 10 2008, 11:39 AM Post #48 |
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But, I don't care - it's 5:00 somewhere
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Hey Kim, sent you a PM |
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But that is my opinion, you can take it or leave it.




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