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| Divorce; what i really think... | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Feb 9 2006, 05:18 AM (372 Views) | |
| Flirtatious | Feb 9 2006, 05:18 AM Post #1 |
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okay, I'm going to voice my thoughts on this issue. I have never told anyone about this, ever. I know gate keeper can read this too, and I want her to know how I feel also. My sister Tiffany and I were 10 and 9, when it just happened. They were fighting for a long time, by Tiffy always said they were okay again the day after. When mum and dad didn't fight, they loved each other very much. I'm not even sure if they were okay with the final decision, but life went on and dad moved away with Tiffy. I don't know why but I've been thinking about it alot lately, ever since they went back to Melbourne last month. Maybe it was my fault I was a really spoilt, selfish and rude kid. I'd hit Tiffy whenever I could, I'd hit my mum and dad when I couldn't have what I wanted. Maybe I'm the reason they broke up. There's no other reason I can think of, because mum and dad still love each other. If only I wasn't so stupid.
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| Promiscuous | Feb 9 2006, 06:16 AM Post #2 |
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Oh my god...:cray: SAMMY, WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS?!?! It was never your fault! No one said it was! EVER! Mum and Dad had some issues, but it had nothing to do with either of us. They still love each other, just like they love us. You can't keep blaming yourself for something you had nothing to do with. You not any of the things you said you are, and you'll never be. You're my beautiful, intelligent little baby sister ![]() Hey, don't be sad, Sammy. You should talk go talk to Mum. I know it's lonely sometimes for you two, just like for me and Dad, but we'll ALWAYS be connected. We'll always be family, every if we can't be together everyday. Mum and Dad love you until the end of time, you little twerp, and so do I. So please, don't think like that ever again.
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| daydreamer198 | Feb 9 2006, 08:47 AM Post #3 |
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You're blaming yourself for the divorce?! Oh sweetie, it's never your fault Kids usually think it's their fault their parents break up, but it isn't. You can't just blame yourself like that, you can't think like that.
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| MEGABLADE | Feb 10 2006, 06:33 AM Post #4 |
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SHADA MAGI ZIE DRAGASI VEIR ZEPHIEL
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SAMMY, YOUR only gona hurt your self more, blame ing your self, it wont help, It s not your falt,you cant stop human emotions NOw I Want you to stop, think about it, CAUSE realy, you seem like a good person to me, i dont how you could be responsible for any thing like that, trust a expert my parents have gon through a lot of devorces so i know how you feel Trust me its not any ones falt, well, ok the weather man has to take some blame but ya think about it and dont be so hard on your self |
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| AmayaSaria | Feb 10 2006, 10:14 PM Post #5 |
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Egao wasurenai yo~{I won't forget to smile}
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Really, you shouldn't feel that way. Most kids do though. A lot of my friends have divorced parents, they always blame themselves. Its usually the parents don't feel the same way, or sometimes they think its better if its they're not together.
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| Kuraudo Sutoraifu | Feb 10 2006, 11:26 PM Post #6 |
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Hmm, well, writing this post seemed interesting. I couldn't actualy think what to say, even know I knew what I wanted to say was there. I didn't want to repeat anything anyone else had to say really. I belive, Parents getting a devorce leads you... It gives you the drive to succeed for the rest of your life. You might not be able to see it, but its there. Dont be harsh on yourself, Your too strong to yet this hurt you... I quess thats all I have to say. |
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| Tifa Lockheart | Mar 3 2006, 09:11 AM Post #7 |
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Never ever blame yourself for your parents' divorce. My parents recently split up; my old man was to blame. (and yes, I'm still angry because I thought everything was so perfect..... and I'm an only child too... O_o' it's like everything just shattered...) ... And gee, I kinda wish there is divorce here in the Philippines. <_<' ... or even the so-called divorce of children from parent/s. But anyway, try not to let it affect you so much. And yes, I'm repeating this: never ever blame yourself. It is never a child's fault that his/her parents are divorcing no matter how "bad" the child is. Just try to be strong, talk to your trusted parent about how you feel... I'd assume it's your mother? Anyway, if she feels bad about it, just stay by her side and support her and urge her to be strong too. |
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| Athena/Fuijin | Sep 26 2006, 01:56 PM Post #8 |
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My parents got divorced when I was 12. Just never think its your fault,and there really was nothing you could do about it. People change. It's sad to say it,but that's how it is. I got really depressed since I knew something was wrong. The atmosphere at home changed...People always say "I'm sorry" when I tell them about it,but theres nothing to be sorry about.That's how I feel tho. I won't forgive my mom for what she did,but I can't let it get to me. |
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I was a really spoilt, selfish and rude kid. I'd hit Tiffy whenever I could, I'd hit my mum and dad when I couldn't have what I wanted. Maybe I'm the reason they broke up. There's no other reason I can think of, because mum and dad still love each other. If only I wasn't so stupid.




Oh sweetie, it's never your fault
2:11 PM Jul 11