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Love?
Topic Started: Dec 29 2004, 09:42 PM (3,312 Views)
Shiva
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Kaldea
Feb 18 2007, 03:10 PM
Once realitiy sets in, they will show their true colors which makes love at first sight a hilariously shallow concept. You can only love someone if you know every inch of their soul and you appreciate their faults, which is why many people still don't know what love is. People "fall in love" with what they want to see.

I believe in the so-called "love-at-first-sight" concept. However, I don't truly believe you actually, literally fall in love with the person the moment you see them. It's more like an instant attraction beyond the physical level. I have experienced this twice in my life. It is almost as if you have suddenly been put under a spell. You just see this person and you freeze. Everything around you fades away except for you and them. "Instant enchantment" would be a better term than "love-at-first-sight". :lol: You just feel a connection with them that you can't explain. It's like someone just slaps you across the face and says, "Wow, look at them!" And, you know, the two guys this has happened with... they weren't even super-handsome or anything. It was just their personality and just... them. It's hard to explain. :unsure: But, is it really, truly love? No.
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VaporTrail
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Cold..... But I'm still here.
Hmm, I have yet to really experience this to be honest... I did have a girlfriend for nine months at one point (when I was 17-18), but I think I was afraid of love and commitment, and everything else that comes with it... She was a wonderful person, and I enjoyed every second of being with her, but I guess the reason I felt a little detracted form her some time down the road, was when she was bring up talks about marriage and things of that nature... since I was only 18, it kinda got to me... >.<

So I guess maybe I did feel it... but I dunno... hard for me to explain... :(
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Mako Soldier CS
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Ah, love. One of the most important characteristics of life. One thing...I have yet to experience. -_- Such a magical feeling from what I've heard, but only a few fortunates are allowed to experience it. Here I am, at the young age of 16. Countless people have told me, "You're young! You have plenty of time." But alas, most 16 year old males would've already had tons by now, but then wouldn't surprise me if half were pregnant either. <_< Hopefully I'll cherish love once before I die. -_-
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PureAerith
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Love, love, love...

Such a short word to describe many, tons of feelings! I think that you feel love when, deep in your soul, something stirs, when feelings radiate from your being and, most of the time, you're not aware of it.

Yeah i know, really poetic.. :whistle:

I also believe in love at first sight as an instant attraction that could become love afterward. It's passion, nonless... Pure passion i could say.

But is love a matter of sacrifice? We could all sacrifice something, our lives even for the one we love.. But we could sacrifice ourselves too to let him or her go.

Love is so complicated and so simple: 'guess that's the beauty of it.
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slowerthanaverage
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*somewhat lost*
Mental mouth makes me feel unloved :(

I believe in love at first sight (Cleris 4eva! :fangirl: lol)
At least, that’s my concept of love. That instant chemistry between you and him.
I know many call this mere “infatuation” and those stuff like once you get to know his bad habits you won’t like him anymore blah blah..but who loves bad habits? =p I sure don’t. I believe that with time, you come to accept his bad habits and stuff, but you don’t grow to love those. You still love what you see as positives in him.

Hmm I guess it depends on individuals at the end of the day. I get easily infatuated with anime characters, actors, singers and what not, but with respect to “normal people”, I’m quite an iceberg. So when I really feel that tingling sensation, I know it’s something more than mere infatuation.

Then again, I never really had long relationships before xD so I wouldn’t know much about these stuff…Men can be really cute, but deceitful at the same time -.- rawr
And women can be contradicting.. :unsure: like me …

We all dream of that magical Cleris kinda love..a strong, selfless love beyond boundaries, don't we? I believe such a love exist, but it's rare. How often will me or you experience such magic? Probability is, say, 0.000001% xp
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Loveholic
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My grandma said some wise words to me about love...

"You can never fall in love with someone twice. You either have always been in love with them, or you never were." :unsure:
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goddess_in_pink07
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Ah, as time goes on and the more I'm getting older I seem to feel I'm learning more about Love. I know, I'm still young and I have a long way's to go in the journey of life.

I know what I've said about Love seems so cliche and common. It's that flutterly feeling you get in your stomach, you'll do anything for Love. It causes pain, struggle, and suffering.
Its all true. Some people ask me why would I love someone who's made me cry. Someone's who hurt me emotionally. But everyone in life makes us cry. We just have to choose who's worth the hurt.

Love really couldn't be put in words. Love has no beginning, nor does it have an end. It's eternal. Love for someone brings compassion and it as well can let us learn to forgive. If we've had problems in life that would enable us to hold bitter feelings for someone, Love can heal it.

If I wanted to write a poem about Love, I'd have a million word's to say about it yet when I go to write it down, I get nothing. For some reason, I can't express what Love is. I can easily write a depressing poem about heartbreak and unhappiness. I can describe that.
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