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| Tweet Topic Started: Dec 29 2004, 09:42 PM (3,314 Views) | |
| TidusBlankety | Jun 17 2006, 07:22 PM Post #91 |
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love is...its simply amazing. It is the best and worst thing at the exact same time. I could not explain my love even if i sat here all day thinking about it. Love is just so amazing, and teh feeling you get makes you happy, and it gives incredible strength at time, and gives you a will to survive and strive...but at the very same time, love can crush you, make you insane, and you make you want to die...its so great, and so terrible at the same time. Ive been in love for a good awhile...and i also felt the other side of love...and its great,but sucks at the same time...but..i dont know. Im very happy, we finally worked everything out and are back together(for those that have been keeping up with me)and im extrememly happy, i just really hope she doesnt mess it up again...man love is amazing... |
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| UsagiMamoru | Jun 29 2006, 05:37 PM Post #92 |
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I love my boyfriend. I love being in love. My boyfriend is so exciting. My boyfriend gets into trouble. My boyfriend is so exciting. My boyfriend is a bad boy. My boyfriend is a bad boy and popular and he is fun. My boyfriend is a bad boy but he loves me. My boyfriend was a popular bad boy and now he loves me. My boyfriend gets into a lot of trouble. When my boyfriend and I were falling in love it was amazing. My boyfriend got into a lot of trouble and his hot, bad boy side was amazing and he loves me. Love is so amazing and wonderful. It feels so amazing. Love is the best feeling in the world. I love being loved by my hot bad boy boyfriend. I am in love with my boyfriend and being in love is such an amazing feeling. My boyfriend is a bad boy and I love that about him. My boyfriend gets into a lot of trouble and he drinks and smokes. My boyfriend has a bad boy reputation. He is so exciting. My boyfriend is still smoking and drinking, but he loves me. He has changed, my boyfriend still drinks and smokes, my boyfriend still has a bad boy reputation, but he has changed. I love my boyfriend and even though he gets into a lot of trouble and he likes to party and he drinks and smokes, he is exciting and he loves me and he is fun and I love my boyfriend and his bad boy side. My boyfriend gets into a lot of trouble, but he is amazing. I love that my boyfriend is a bad boy. I love my boyfriend. |
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| TidusBlankety | Jul 4 2006, 11:07 PM Post #93 |
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NIce job!!! you've been dating for a year!!! my one year is in september 11th the day after my birthday. love is truly an amizing, thre is no better feeling, im not even joking, those that are in love know what im sayin! Its simply amazing, you couldnt word it much better then that. |
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| Loveholic | Jan 1 2007, 01:13 PM Post #94 |
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Hi from Germany. ![]() *ahem* This may be a litte off-topic, but I just need to ask someone. I kinda have this crush on my aunt's husband, just a schoolgirl crush and nothing more, and I always have for a long time now, even before they were married. It's just... I like to check him out sometimes when I see him, which is like a few times every year. He kinda looks like this boy in my class, but that's not why I've crushed on him.I just want to take it off my chest... is this considered wrong?
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| Real_Emotion | Jan 1 2007, 04:58 PM Post #95 |
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I don't neccessarily think having a crush on someone is wrong. You can't help the way you feel, that's what I'd like to think. From your post, it seems youy just have a simple schoolgirl crush on him. I see nothing wrong with schoolgirl crushes, since they're rather innocent, from what I've seen and experienced. So, I wouldn't consider this wrong. As long as you keep your emotions in check and your crush remains just a simple crush. |
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| Loveholic | Jan 1 2007, 08:11 PM Post #96 |
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I know, I know. I only see him when I go to Germany, though, and I live in Australia. It's just, when I say I think my aunt's husband is hot, I automatically also say that I think my uncle is hot. It's not like that!
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| goddess_in_pink07 | Jan 19 2007, 05:15 PM Post #97 |
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How does love work? Umm... Well, it depends... if you truely love that person with all your heart,your willing to do anything for them...anything. Just to prove your love. Love couldn't be explained in words... it has to be done by action. It can make you soo happy... it lets you forget all your troubles... but, love can hurt. It can make you cry... and, feel such horrible pain... when you love someone so much... you need them...you need them to make the pain go away... you come to depend on that person so heavily to make you better, that you couldn't even think of going on without them... |
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| strawberrykisses08 | Feb 16 2007, 11:24 PM Post #98 |
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Love isn't just about how you feel, but it's also about commitment. Are you willing to make sacrifices to be with that person? Are you willing to stay with them no matter what? Are you willing to remain loyal to that one special person and not stray, no matter how tempting it is? Love can be sugar, spice, and everything nice at the right moments, but also, there will be rough spots when you're in a relationship...It's simply unavoidable. There have been two instances where my boyfriend was tempted, but he remained loyal, despite the distance (he's a Brit, I'm from the States) between us. In one instance, there was a girl he met through a former best friend. They hung out a few times and one day, she told him that she's in love with him, and that every time she sees him, she gets the butterflies. Now, keep in mind that he has only had one girlfriend through his entire life besides me, and she cheated on him, so he isn't used to having girls fawn over him. His first thought when she said this was "Oh no...what am I going to tell Kari?" At first, he was to afraid to say anything, out of fear that I'd be heartbroken and leave him. The first part is true, I was devastated at the thought of him leaving me for another girl, but a mutual friend convinced him to talk to me about it, so he did just that. He realised after talking to me for a bit that he loves me and he can't just leave me like that. The other incident with temptation isn't as bad, as it was just some girls approaching him at a bar and trying to get him to...erm...participate in various "activities". He told them to back off because he's taken and doesn't cheat. So yeah, not as bad as the first instance =] I've said all that to say this: Love is real, but it is an irrational concept that no matter how much we try, we as humans will never fully understand. It's not just a feeling you have towards someone, it is also commitment, trust, loyalty, understanding, patience, kindness, selflessness, and so many other characteristics. When you experience it for the first time, you'll feel on top of the world =] It truly is a great feeling. |
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| Sefie | Feb 18 2007, 05:40 AM Post #99 |
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Bwahaha, TB! You bumped this thread from two years ago! *just spent the time to dig through posts to find out who did it* Anyways, GIP I kinda had a crush on my sister's husband for awhile, and I still think he's an attractive guy, but it's not anything bad. I don't think you have a problem at all, as long as it never gets beyond where it's at right now(he's your uncle, just remember that!) Love is about many things: attraction, affection, commitment and compatibility. All these are required for a successful relationship. Lol, it was so funny to read through this thread, and reflect on how far I've come since I started it :lol: I'd like to type more, but my boyfriend needz teh interwebs so he can finish setting up his new router |
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| Sadhana | Feb 18 2007, 07:48 PM Post #100 |
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First of all, I think that everyone sees love in a different way based on their experiences. While we all experience the same thing, we feel it in different ways. Some people think they're in love and they never really are, some people think you only have one true love in your life while others don't. Just reading through the last few posts, I already see a lot of disagreements I have with some people regarding what love is and what it's like to be in love. But here's my interpretation of love. Being a writer (or at least someone who loves writing and writes multiple times a day), I've come to find the weaknesses of words. Sometimes, every range of thought and feeling and experience can't be tamed by something like a word. As an appropriate example, the word "love" fails to explain and encompass everything that it is and everything that it can be. People say that love is amazing but it can also be painful, but even that description doesn't feel totally appropriate to me. You know the quote, "Love is poetry of the senses"? I think that's a horrible explaination. Love isn't of the senses at all because you don't taste it, it isn't palpable. Maybe the fact that love isn't of the senses is what makes it so hard to explain. How do we attach words to something that isn't observable in a world of perception by the senses? Let me try to come to the point. I don't think love is amazing or painful. Those are the byproducts of love, but they aren't love. Love is the selfless caring for another person. It's a window into another person, being able to experience the happiness and pain they experience. It's not like "The Notebook" where everything is colored in shades of bright red or dark gray. Love is a gravitational force. I was in love once. It was so perfect to feel complete emotional comfort in someone else's arms. Unfortunately, the person I fell in love with died. Not literally, but he turned into someone I couldn't be with. He changed, and the only heartreak I felt in ending our relationship was in knowing that I couldn't have the old Dan back. I guess that's what happens over the course of two years to teenagers. They change. I just prefer 17-year-old Dan to 19-year-old Dan, but I guess that doesn't matter anymore. |
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| goddess_in_pink07 | Feb 18 2007, 08:53 PM Post #101 |
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God, that last paragraph really was... amazing. Having someone you care about, turn into someone you didn't know. They change into different people, and from that you just can't continue to love them... You wish they'd go back to the way they were, back to the person they were that made you grow feelings and fall in love with them.... |
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| Kaldea | Feb 18 2007, 09:10 PM Post #102 |
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That's the thing though. It's called KNOWING SOMEONE INSIDE AND OUT. ![]() People only "change" when you start to see who they really are. When you think you're "falling in love" or otherwise, most of the time it's because of how the other person presents themself or it's how you view them. Once realitiy sets in, they will show their true colors which makes love at first sight a hilariously shallow concept. You can only love someone if you know every inch of their soul and you appreciate their faults, which is why many people still don't know what love is. People "fall in love" with what they want to see. Also, love and infatuation are two VERY different things. Love isn't what makes you want to be with a person 24/7. Love is a wonderful feeling you get when you feel you have found the other half of your soul. Love isn't what makes you feel horrible if that person isn't around because love doesn't depend on distance. Love can wait. I can't believe I went to school for this subect.
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| Sadhana | Feb 19 2007, 02:37 AM Post #103 |
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I definitely agree, but the thing is, I was dating that guy for a year and a half before he started to change. I knew him inside and out by then, and he became like a different person. He even told me that I knew him better than he knew himself. He changed internally. He had always acted kind of cocky, but he used to still be kind of insecure on the inside. I think as he got older and more sure of himself, he lost that insecurity and then he became too proud. I didn't like it. But don't you think that teenagers naturally grow and change a lot? I mean, maybe it's not as prevelant among adults, but at this age, they do change. Anyway, I knew him as well as you can know a person.
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| strawberrykisses08 | Feb 19 2007, 06:30 PM Post #104 |
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Source: http://www.inkmonkey.com/artgallery/love_i..._the_words.html The above passage is read at wedding ceremonies =] No one will truly be able to define love, you know? Mainly because everyone feels it but no one person can actually make it concrete. It can only be felt and exchanged between two people (if we're talking romantic love, as there are a lot of different types of love), and that makes it all the more special. I'm sure if you ask an elderly man why he loves his wife, it'll be a different response from if you ask a 20 year old guy why he loves his girlfriend, because love grows and is more understood with time and experience. As for people changing, it happens to all of us. I'm not the same girl I was a year ago...I'm not sure what influenced my change, but now instead of being a broken girl who'd lost hope on ever being good enough for a guy, a girl who hides her true self out of fear of ridicule, I'm now whole. I've regained my lost hope, because I know I am good enough for a certain special guy. I'm not afraid to show my true self to the world, because I know that someone out there will love me for who I am, not how I presented myself in the past: a tomboy girl who hates makeup with a passion, detests the color pink, never wants to look at another skirt, afraid to cry in front of those who care about her for fear of looking weak, selfish, uncaring, boring, and rude. The real me is a girl who thinks make up actually makes me look a bit better, the color pink isn't so bad after all, skirts are great when you wanna look good, crying in front of those who love and care for you isn't going to make you weak but instead, makes you stronger because you're brave enough to let your emotions out, unselfish, caring, vibrant, and polite. I've done a complete 180. Why? Well, it could be because all teenagers naturally go through changes; it's part of changing from a kid with no responsibility to an adult with tons of responsibility. Also though, it could be because of my boyfriend. My boyfriend sparked something in me that has changed me all over. I'm not sure what exactly, but whatever it is, I've sparked the same in him. It feels like our souls are permanently melded together now, that we're no longer two separate people, but instead, one person in mind and spirit (body comes later ;)), and that no matter what happens in the outside world, we know that we have each other to run to. He knows my faults, and he loves them, because they make me who I am. I can be clingy at times, I'm angered quite easily by my family, I get very emotional sometimes, I get feelings of jealousy when he talks about his past relationships, I'm insecure about certain things...He knows all of this, understands all of this, and loves me despite these faults. He sees that I've been through a lot of emotional stress in the past, and he's willing to work with me to get past that. While we have a lot of good feelings and such between us, we also have a good, solid friendship, which is vital. When one of us feels doubt about something, we talk about it, because we know it's the way to fix things, rather than keeping those feelings bottled up until one day, it just all comes out. He isn't perfect, and neither am I. No person is perfect in this world, and a lot of people need to see that. It's a test of patience, trust, and loyalty that only the most fit will pass. |
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| Sefie | Feb 19 2007, 09:26 PM Post #105 |
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Sadhana, I agree with your comment on "love isn't amazing or painful, those are by-products". I agree that love is defiantly the selfless feeling of charity for someone you care about. That was really insightful. |
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