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Love?
Topic Started: Dec 29 2004, 09:42 PM (3,315 Views)
Sir DQ
hmm...
I think I was allowed to get a little over-dramatic babe, I was pretty bummed
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Aerith's_Man
Lalalala Oh were you talking? Sorry I wasn't listening.
lets see...I am lost so I will give my veiw on love..........I don't love, unless I really know them, I love my family...but love is such a strong word.
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Everchanging
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I do not get love-it really eludes me-simple emotions I can barely take-let alone love. I usually hide my emotions-though now I've found that thatwas real stupid considering I'm more emotional than most of the extroverts I know. I'm happy for my friend who is in love-it's really healed her.
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Sefie
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Sir DQ
May 8 2005, 03:40 AM
I think I was allowed to get a little over-dramatic babe, I was pretty bummed

Yeah, I know. And it's alright, I'm constantly over-dramatic(but you knew that ;))

Everchanging- I don't get it either! I think about it quite often, just trying to figure out how two people could experience such a powerful emotion at the same time. I can kind of see one person feeling it, and then winning the other over(courtship). But it just boggles me when two people just FALL for each other, no flirting invovled!

Xavier- Loving your family is a VERY good thing, I'm glad you do. Familial love is the first a person can experience
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I guess your right. Well I'm happy your in love Sefie. Oh yeah, before I go off, DQ is in the Last person to spam here wins section. I was hoping to spam you too. Well maybe in the future.
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Aerith's_Man
Lalalala Oh were you talking? Sorry I wasn't listening.
I ment I lo....never mind.
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Geminico
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I think love is having a 'best friend' who you are intimate with, and sharing special feelings with them exclusively.

Unfortunately, I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years just last week. It was long distance, an online thing, but we visited eachother quite a few times. It's funny...I'm such a hopeless romantic, but after everything I've gone through, it really makes me skeptical. I thought that what I had was real and wonderful and would last a long time, but then it just came abruptly to an end. I guess my advice for online couples is...you really really need to put your everything into it. And you need to make sure it's not just you who's doing so. That's the price I paid for trusting someone who after 3 years suddenly decided I wasn't worth the effort anymore. I dated someone who didn't understand that with love comes good AND bad. Things need to progress.

Goodluck to you who have found real love.
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Sefie
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Well I'm happy your in love Sefie


I'm happy too. DQ really makes me happy

*reads G's story* Ouch, I'm sorry it ended that way. Well, now you're open to singles in your area right? It'll be easier that way

DQ and I are an online couple, he's in Scotland, I'm in California(about as far away as two people can get I think <_< ), but so far it's been working out great. I'll keep your advice in mind
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Jabberwhack
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DANG! I CAN'T STAND IT! SHE IS RIGHT AT MY BACK RIGHT NOW! SHE JUST POPS OUTTA NOWHERE! :unsure:
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yin-chan
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May 10 2005, 05:01 AM
I guess my advice for online couples is...you really really need to put your everything into it. And you need to make sure it's not just you who's doing so.

Erm...my first time posting in this thread... ^^;

Yea, you're right about online couples...

I've been with my boyfriend for seven years - we met online - and until now we haven't even met each other in the flesh... ^^; except in photos, if that counts lol

But we're still together and still in love...I think it's such a miracle. Like Sefie said, just fall in love with no flirting involved...its quite incredible...we just connect BAM like that... and you know it's right somehow... ^^;
It sounds really silly...lots of people have mocked us and laughed at us and said it wouldn't last....but hey, 7 years and still going!! I guess we just trust each other a lot...urm yeah....
We'll only get to really meet in 3 or 4 more years...*sigh* it's a long time, but oh well.
*sits down and waits*
:blush:
....*is embarassed*
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Sefie
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Why d'you have to wait so long to meet?

(Dang! And I thought 34 days was alot!)

And did anyone else notice how common online couples are becoming?
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yin-chan
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Because that's when we'll finally get out of university. *^__^*

I agree, I see online couples almost everywhere!!! O__O
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Jun 22 2005, 08:56 AM
I've been with my boyfriend for seven years - we met online - and until now we haven't even met each other in the flesh... ^^; except in photos, if that counts lol

You're right about online couples, G. I've known my current boyfriend for about a year, and we've been dating since the end of March. We were already dating the second day we knew each other, but broke up. Now, it's passed March, isn't it? That's right, it's June now. =P And like with yin-chan, the only time I've seen my boyfriend was in photos. And he's seen me on webcam and photos. XP! About four months, I trust him. I was offline for about a month, and missed the #*@$% ( sorry for the language. ) outta him. Each and everyday, each second, minute.. It's sad. =P But I care for him just that much.

And visiting him is something that's just going to be hard. He lives in Canada, and I'm in the United States. The actual distance ( Remember.. It's Canadian/American couple here. =P ) is probably about a good three days with stops. >_>; And because of that distance.. And being in two different ( yet so close ) countries. =P I trust him. And, I still wouldn't know what I would do if I lost him now.
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Love can really hurt......so much.

And love is cruel, it does not limit you to the people of this realm..

I would know, thus my love for Yazoo.
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Love is very hard to explain and even harder to understand, I think that love real love is something that has time to grow and become strong, that someone you truly are in love with is someone you can just be yourself around, someone who understands you more then anyone else like the two of you are linked together at the soul,but I also think your love for them should be stronger then your need for them,because alot of the time people say "I cant live without them" though it may feel that way but you actuly have lived without them for most of your life, I think that if you truly love someone you can trust them fully and go to them with anything and they will be there for you and understand what you are going through, thats just my take on the whole love thing. :D
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