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Love?
Topic Started: Dec 29 2004, 09:42 PM (3,318 Views)
Sir DQ
hmm...
Not always for the worst.
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Angelic Blue
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That's true
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SweetJanie
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Wow, so many emoticons... :moogle:

Anyway, yeah, it's true ppl change, and so do feelings...but that doesn't mean you should give up on love and hate the oposite sex..(like I did, if you read my past posts...)

It's being pretty difficult for me to stop being afraid of falling in love..I want to, because I love that feeling, but at the same time I don't want to cause I'm afraid to suffer...

It's so confusing... :/ sometimes I feel like kicking myself!
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Lady Anime
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"I shall now take my sniper rifle, aim, and miss" ^_^
Love is hard to explain.

I've been in love multiple times. First time, me and my crush were in Kindergarten, me and my crush always played together and we sat next to each other. But when 1st grade came and we were different classes, I forgot his name.

The 2nd time, I liked this boy who went to my grandmother's church, we'd always sneak into some place and kiss. But that was it. A few years later, we were just friends.

But the latest was a little more successful. We met at a gamer chatroom. We talked and talked till he had to log off. But soon we'd always talk to each other whenever we were in the chatroom. I grew to trust him so much that I even told him about my bad past and he helped me when my dog, Saki, had to be put sleep. :huggle:

He was so sweet to me, he was nothing like the guys in my town. Soon we fell for each other.

A few months later, he said that he loved me and I told him the truth. I loved him too. And soon we became an online couple. :huggle:

So I can't say what love is. But I can say that part of love is finding someone who truely cares about you, someone you can trust, someone who will always offer a shoulder to cry on.
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SweetJanie
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Well, I promised myself I would never fall in love online again. Even if I do, I'll act as if I didn't. And even if he says he loves me I'll just keep denying my true feelings, cause I'm sick of loving someone that only exists in my mind. How can you be so sure he's telling the truth? That he's not dating several girls online? And his feelings might not even be real...So, for me, no matter how sweet he seems, he's never truly real until we meet face to face. <_<
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Sefie
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*Reads Raist's post about conversation* EXACTLY. Me'n my significant other can literally just sit and talk all day LONG. It's wonderful!
And don't worry SJ, someday your prince will come. You just gotta be patient(I had to wait 4 years all alone, but he was worth it!)
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Angelic Blue
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Me'n my significant other can literally just sit and talk all day LONG. It's wonderful!


Hehe... I've done that too many times to count.
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Nya
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A lot of people don't believe in online relationships/love. Well, true online love is rare but it DOES exist, and when the love it's real, it's actually really cute. Because then you know that the person can be all loyal, strong and stuff for you. Online relationships are just like long distance relationships, both are really hard to keep, but if you manage through, then you'll be able to touch other people with your story, dunnoe but it does with me.
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Tacofoolio
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Nya, I fully agree. I do believe in it because that's how my story is. But Online love isn't for everyone. You have to have trust, and you need to make sure that the other person is trust worthy, and able to trust you in return. If you have trouble trusting others, Online love would be hard. Actually any type of love would be hard, but when you can't see proof, it makes it harder. Also, I don't think you should try to look for love so much as you should only be open to it. It makes it easier to see the person as a whole than if you're trying to fit them into a mold of a lover. Anyway, I'm at work so I'll have to hurry up and end this for now.
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Velut Luna
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well for me...(i might sound silly for saying this)its just like hana said
"when you love someone it could make you feel sad sometimes or sometimes it could make you feel lonely but...it could make you happier than you ever been"
sometimes i think about it and it does sound like she said it >_<
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Sefie
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Online relationships are hard, DEFINATLY. But I don't see why RL should be any better. I mean, what really matters? Going out on dates and spending money, or being able to sit and talk and just ENJOY each other?
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K' Bass
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Love....for me..something that's always avoiding me....

My first love was a girl I met in high school. She and I had gotten really close. Then eventually, we became a couple. After about a year, I proposed to her, and she accepted. We were so happy. I loved her so much. I thought I had finally found the one to spend eternity with.

....oh how blind to the truth I was...one month ago...

Weeks later, she had been avoiding me. Then she confessed one day that she had been seeing someone else. Not just seeing, but had slept with him several times. I was crushed...and still am. I cry everytime I think of her. I can't get her out of my head...yet it sickens me everytime.

Love..will I find it?..don't know.
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Mith
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Don't feel bad, K. I know it's hard to say that and actually not feel bad...but things will get better. Don't worry. *hug*

I actually am in an online relationship right now. We met at a forum over a year ago and barely talked. It was thanks to AIM and our similar interests that we began to talk, and I denied my feelings for the longest time. I always told myself that I would not allow myself to fall in love over the internet, because as someone has said, I did not want to love someone that only existed as a name and font on a little program box. However, it got to the point that I just couldn't ignore it any longer, and so one night I planned to tell him how I felt. I knew it would be hard, because he had this other girl that he talked about all the time, and she had laid claim to him right in front of me. She knew I was interested in him and she tried her hardest to stand in my way.

On November 20, 2003, I had the guts to slowly leak information until he guessed it ^^. Hahaha, I never outright told him until he said it himself; big backbone I have. Anyway...it turned out that he felt the same way for me. He had been hiding it all along because he didn't want another net relationship with someone that would betray him as the last one had. That girl that he always talked about turned out to be just someone he thought of as a sister, but she didn't feel that way (as we later fought and almost broke up over, but we got it worked out).

We decided to try it anyway, and it was as if a fire started within me. Something lit up, clicked, whatever you want to say; he was mine, and I knew he was special to me in an unimaginable way. You could say I found my soul mate that day. I never heard his voice or saw his picture until May of 2004 when I called him from Florida, the place where my class was vacationing for our senior trip. Right now we are going through college, and we have both agreed that we are going to be married as soon as we are financially stable. I have since visited him three times. The first time was at a train station in Illinois. We met in the summer of 2004, in August. We talked, and I went to stay with him at his house (with his parents) for 7 days. Over Christmas break, I stayed with him for two full weeks. Then just recently, I took him to see the Dear Friends Final Fantasy music concert in Chicago, Illinois. I was only there for one whole day and one short morning and night and I traveled for 11 hours (one way) just to reach him. We live over 600 miles apart, yet we held out and neither of us has ever cheated on the other.

There is not a day that goes by that I don't feel ripped apart, yet at the same time, I remember those glorious days when I was with him, just getting to see how he lived and to see him before I slept and after I woke up (they had an extra room for me). It's not as simple as saying we are in love, as awful as that sounds. We don't just claim each other as a boyfriend or girlfriend. We enjoy each other. We go to amazing lengths just to see the other one happy, and I'm very proud to say that Eriance is my love. I just can't get enough of him, and I never bragged like this about any of the other supposed true loves I've had!

Love makes me happy, even though it kills me sometimes.

Oh, and it's really cool because he's native Chinese and I'm not! Heheh ^^ *feels stupid*
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Nya
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oh God, that's such a sweet story Mith! Aww..

Hey, I'm Chinese too , haha. Well, I hope you'll be happy forever with him, kay? =D

K' Bass, I hope you'll get over it. It's tough to get over someone, I had and boy, was I a crybaby over thahas. He actually wanted to get rid of me so badly that he faked himself being his cousin and then telling me that his whole family was against me. Wow! hahaaaa , but y'noe what, when you get over someone, you'll be able to realize that *that person just isn't the one for you. Right now, in your current situation's, it's totally hell. .. just turn to your family and friends for help, really, they CAN help you. I learned a lot from my stupid relationship, gained and LOST a lot. But I don't really regret it that much, at least I'm not so gullible (sp) now.

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SweetJanie
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Whatever you say...I think I already lost hope in love...

When I see a romantic movie or see you guys talking like that, I get so jealous and, at the same time, feel so empty inside...I don't know why, but I just can't fall in love anymore... <_<
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