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| Tweet Topic Started: Dec 29 2004, 09:42 PM (3,319 Views) | |
| Sir DQ | Dec 31 2004, 07:23 PM Post #16 |
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hmm...
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how do you know I was being congratulatory over a wedding? Perhaps it was something else? There's a couple of important technical things that need done before I can get married. |
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| Sefie | Dec 31 2004, 11:21 PM Post #17 |
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Yes, like his bolts tightened. If his head were to fall off at the altar...SHEER disgrace! (I'm sorry! I'm sooooooo hyper right now!) Anyways, you've heard it time and again, but congrats AGAIN Shannon! (And congrats on the maybe baby!) |
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| Cloudsgirl | Jan 1 2005, 01:31 AM Post #18 |
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ohhhh my God! Four years ago, I met a guy who completely turned my life around!!! Everything was going so well, we were so happy... then, he started acting differently for a few weeks, became very withdrawn from me and everything. When I finally asked him what was up, he said he had something very important to tell me. Of course, I told my girlfriends, and we sat up half the night planning what he could tell me. I thought he was gonna ask me to move in with him, they thought marriage. Anyway, I went over to his apartment walking on air, I even remembered thinking about what color I could paint his livingroom/kitchen. And then he dropped a bomb on me by telling me he had been seeing someone else for the past few weeks. I asked who she was, and he said: well, Ben's not a she. I was so crushed. This boy, who I thought I would marry was telling me flat out that he was gay! I never even saw it coming... I got all upset and he said he never meant to hurt me, but we didn't talk for about a year. Anyway, my story ends with someone I love dearly, my Alex. |
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| Angelic Blue | Jan 1 2005, 02:33 AM Post #19 |
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wow... |
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| ~*~Shannon~*~ | Jan 1 2005, 03:34 AM Post #20 |
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Oh my gosh!!! I can't believe that! Was he just toying with you or something? That's just sooooooooo wrong...... At least it was for the better though, right?
Like what color kilt you'll wear? *grins*
What baby? There isn't a baby yet! No way! Not before I'm married! |
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| Tacofoolio | Jan 14 2005, 11:43 PM Post #21 |
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We are number one. All others are number two, or lower.
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Love is definately a strange thing. It's both simple and complicated. It's simple because it just seems to happen, but complicated because you can't explain it. You just feel it. My love story is very long, and new chapters keep getting added, so i could never really explain it. I'm not sure if you could call my love love at first sight or not, I met my now husband online, but even though we were states away and couldn't see each other, I was drawn to him the first time I talked/wrote to him. Then it grew and matured from there, so I guess all I can tell you is that it can be immediate, but from the point it starts, it'll keep growing if it's true. |
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| Angelic Blue | Jan 15 2005, 05:04 AM Post #22 |
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That's the truth... |
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| Sarabella | Jan 15 2005, 05:47 PM Post #23 |
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This guy are sick!
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Sometimes it takes people a long time to realize that they're gay. My best friend, who was also my boyfriend for over a year, recently "came out" too. I wasn't mad at all-- how could I be? He told me that he didn't even realize it until recently. Apparently it took him years to really realize it, and that it wasn't just a phase. (We would hold hands and cuddle, but we never kissed or anything like that-- I always assumed it was because he was shy!). That was several years ago, though. We still love each other very much. He's still my best friend and I'm so happy that he's realized his true self and was able to share it with me.
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| Buhon | Jan 16 2005, 09:22 AM Post #24 |
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I'm going to agree with Sarabella, sometimes it's takes people who are gay time to reconsile with their orientation. Cloudsgirl - I had a similar experience - a girlfirend that I really loved who turned out to be gay. It was extremely painful for me, almost worse that JUST a break-up. What is love? Wow, tough question. Are we referring exclusively to romantic love, or love in general? |
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| Angelic Blue | Jan 17 2005, 07:38 AM Post #25 |
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I believe it's romantic love we're talking about. |
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| Sefie | Jan 20 2005, 04:32 AM Post #26 |
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Eyes of dream-water
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Love in general, how does it work? How does one person feel something, and the other just happens to feel it back? That was the original question, Buhon. I recently fell in love again and it got me curious about how it works, how it's POSSIBLE |
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| Seii Monogatari | Jan 20 2005, 06:04 AM Post #27 |
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Fishy McLuv Carp
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Ugh, I've liked a guy for almost four years. I even told him once, and then I ran full-speed to the girl's bathroom because I felt so embarassed. I wouldn't have had to tell him either, except that my friend, who is much taller and stronger than me, was going to knock me into him if I didn't. She would have made it so difficult. You always hear that it feels better once you've told them, but IT'S NOT ALWAYS TRUE!! It's much more comfortable for me to stay nice and quiet and make eye contact from across a room. Oh yes. It's been a couple years since the incident, so hopefully he's either forgotten or doesn't think I like him anymore. I know that a lot of the girls liked him at that point, but it was just because they thought he was hot. He is, but I liked him for other reasons, too. Aparently, he figured it was for the same reason as everyone else ... I will kill my friend!!! (actually we saw a movie last week, so I guess I don't *reallly* hate her ... ) He's the "Cloud" I was talking about in the "'Clouds' and 'Zacks'" threads. *sigh*
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| Raist | Feb 19 2005, 09:51 AM Post #28 |
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The Bringer of the Black Funeral
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Being of the philisophical type i used to believe that love was a great friend, or friendly connection that happened to also include a sexual attraction between the two people. The about 6 months ago i fell in love and threw all those thoughts in the bin. I hate to say it but love is as cliched as all the words describing it, but that doesn't make it any less magical. Conversation is the key though, if you don't love simply talking to the other person, sitting down for hours on end simply chatting then as far as i'm concerned you're not in love. Unfortunately the girl destroyed me about a month and a half ago, a long story but i've only just begun recovering from it. |
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| Angelic Blue | Feb 21 2005, 07:54 AM Post #29 |
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I gotta say it's amazing that even people like me (you know what I mean) can feel so strongly for someone. My body is tingling as I'm writing this. About 6 months ago I met this girl that I quickly became very close to. I've had about 3 girls that ended out liking me (strange, huh? I wasn't liking it...) and she was on that list too. But she seemed to be different from the others. About 2 months later, I started getting very nervous around her. I could never say the right thing, I would always sweat, etc. I started sorting out ym feelings; it had been a while since I thought myself over. I started thinking about why this was happening, because I was sitting there clueless. It took me about 2 weeks to realize that I was actaully attracted (no, that's not a typo) to her. We started becoming even *cough* closer than before, and then we just discovered this connection between us. I don't know how true these feelings are, but they must be something because she is the only person I can safely say that I would literally die for. I'll shut up now... *is embarrassed* |
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| Raist | Feb 21 2005, 08:11 AM Post #30 |
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The Bringer of the Black Funeral
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HAHA i know exactly what you mean i still hate telling people about these kind of things, it is truly the most embarrassing experience i've ever gone through. It sounds like you are very attracted to her Cloug, it's good to hear, just be careful, things and people change. |
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He's still my best friend and I'm so happy that he's realized his true self and was able to share it with me.


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